So a small part but yet a significant part of Leisha’s and my story was exposed this week. For sure it has been a surreal experience. We have had to re-live something that we are really way past and as a result questions have come to the forefront in my mind and here is one answer…

To do what I did to Leisha for so long, an underlying element was I didn’t see all of her. I didn’t see into her. I have seen this expressed several different ways in the psychological world. I was stuck in trying to see into me where I only saw a lot of pain that ended up in anger that expressed itself in how I treated her. Even though I really wasn’t angry AT HER, she bore the brunt of it.

I challenge you to look around at your relationships and ask yourself, where is it that you can’t see into people. You will know….If you are frankly honest with yourself you will certainly know. It might even be your spouse….

It might not express itself like it did with me. It could express itself in always striving to make way more money than you really need. It might express itself in porn addiction, self medicating with pot, alcohol, fast cars, too much golf, accepting too many business trips, too much church or civil service…. There are a lot more possibilities than what you saw in our video.

I then Challenge you to go into a deep long term venture into an ‘Identity” pursuit with your “Good Father” in heaven. Not a warrior God. Not a distant God. Not a metaphysical God but only a “Good and Loving Father God”. There you will begin to see into your true self and begin to have the capacity to see into the relationships around you in a true way. Then you will find your soul begin to be healed, bad relationships restored, good ones taken to heights never imagined.

THAT is a huge key to a good life.